Sulking over food and more

Last Saturday the bf needs to do a photo shoot for some event. We couldn’t have dinner together. So I had dinner with my parents.

Initially I wanted to get the Wantan Mee nearby my house but it was sold out by 6.30pm. In the end I settled for Fried Kuey Teow from another coffee shop. It was yucky. I will never buy from there again.

I related this incident to my bf. When he came over later, we went out to dinner because he hadn’t eaten.

We have problem deciding where to eat most of the time. There is a lot of places to eat and I always have places I want to go. As a gf I need to be understanding. I don’t want us to spend too much by going to restaurants.

Sometimes the guy is too hungry to drive anywhere further. He gets irritated and drives madly when he is hungry Most of the time I will settle for something I don’t really want to eat. It’s OK for me as long as the food is not too bad.

Last Saturday I got very mad because the bf ordered Fried Kuey Teow (with extra prawns and chili) and Fried Radish Cake. They taste the same to me and I had a shitty Fried Kuey Teow earlier.

Do I want to eat it again? I know the one he ordered tastes better but I don’t want to eat another Fried Kuey Teow again. I was also mad when he asked for extra prawns because it is not healthy, not to mention the food is oily.

The bf had been telling me he wants to lose weight. He smokes and he is over weight, I’m very concern about his health. I just want him to watch what he eats since I cannot make him quit smoking or exercise.

He didn’t get what I mean and kept saying there is nothing to eat there. So it became my fault that we were there. I got very upset.

After I got upset and refuse to eat, my bf then suggested we take a drive down to KL. I appreciate his effort but that wasn’t what I meant by being in town. Sitting in the car?

If I could leave the house I would have gone to KLCC for shopping and meet him for dinner. We could dine in CPK or Jogoya and have a fabulous time. I told him how I wish I could do that but I couldn’t due to my home situation. I didn’t say I want to drive around in KL.

I would be happy if we could just stop somewhere, sit down, walk a bit, have a drink and enjoy the atmosphere. I had been working the whole day. All I want is some quiet time with the person I love, have good conversations and not sitting with someone who is constantly looking at TV or playing with his phone everytime when there is TV and wi-fi available in eateries.

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Small accomplishments

My happy mood makes me feel less tired and I get things done. Today I feel much better than last week when my bf went outstation for work and we were not on good terms before that.

Last night I managed to settle some payment via Maybank2u. I also sorted out some bills which were sitting in my bag from last month and threw away some unwanted papers. This morning I settled the transfers for the payment I made on my mom’s behalf.

There was once I felt so moody (something to do with the bf as well), I forgot about my credit card bill. The bill did not arrive and I was so caught up with my own emotions I totally forgot about it until the bank called me.

I told the officer that the bill did not arrived. She said I am suppose to remember what’s my due date every month… like I got so much time to remember all my accounts and dates lah! The bill is my reminder and I never owe the bank a single cent k? … WTF. She said she will waived my late payment fees, but I still got penalised on my Dell computer easy payment.

Last week I got a call from the bank again. This time I got penalised for an overdraft on my current account… WTF. I have enough funds in my savings, why is there no auto transfer when the fund is low?  The contractor whom my mom gave the cheque to banked in the cheque immediately. I could not do a transfer sooner because the Maybank2u website was so slow, even my office’s fibre network cannot open the site.

I had to use an ATM machine to do the transfer instead. This time I lost RM50.

It’s a lot of money k? The bank is not giving that much interest for my funds with them also and they further decreased the interest rate. Honestly, I hate banks and the bankers. These people still want to ask for 30% salary increase. What do they do? They just sit there and work like the rest of us wat. They don’t contribute to generating more money for customers.

Well, I don’t want to comment further. I am in a good mood today… so far.