Everyone has his/her own priorities in life. The difference is whether or not we include people as part of our lifes’ priorities. These people may be our parents, spouse, children, boyfriend or girlfriend etc.

What happens when you’ve been shown that the person you love has little interest to make plans for a future together?

He has lots of plans and wants to own many things. “Things” are very important whether or not it is some new gadget, a new car or a new TV.

What about something for the girl friend? What about saving for future, putting a roof over their heads, getting food on the table etc…

In the first place, is he able to make a promise to his girl friend? Will she ever get to see the ring? their house?

I am not saying a guy must provide everything but there is no need to continue if they are not going to share a life in future. The future is not tomorrow or the days after, months or years ahead. The future starts now.