Most bloggers have done the Standout in life for some beer company sponsored party in town. I am not going to promote the party nor attending one. This topic is kind of interesting to share here.

Is it good to standout in life? Most of us want to be outstanding in something good. However, life may not treat every outstanding person fairly. Do you not agree? This explains the failures we face in life. Maybe I shouldn’t use the word “failures”, “shortcomings” is more appropriate.

Anyway, if I have to say something that makes me different from most people, here they are:

• I worked with Lee-hom for a couple of years. I met his mother on several occassions. Both our moms met before and this started while I was in university and during the first few years I started working.
• I co-written a song in one of Lee-hom’s album before.
• I can play the piano, I draw and paint.
• I have 9 years of experience with excellent credentials and I am still an exec in my current job.
• I work 7 days a week; a full-time job, a weekend job and freelancing. Yet I am merely surviving.
• I am outstanding employee known as the one who got thumbs up from the director and I am getting peanuts from the company. I am the only person doing all the web designing. My employer owns a dozen or more subsidiaries which includes hotels and shopping malls.
• I have old and sick at home to take care of and I am single with no one to support me.
• I had breast lump removed 3 years ago.

Do I sound like I want to party? Absolutely not.