Today I feel a little bit ‘bat-gua’. Well, no harm sharing coz you won’t know who I’m talking about, but we can all learn thing or two about relationships.
I am following quite a number of blogs. One of them belongs to a guy who is already working and loves to eat. From his entries, I got to know his love for younger girls. His ex and current gf are both still college students.
Can you imagine the glamour of having a working bf while still in college? The girl gets to wine and dine, receive pretty presents, gets to be chauffeured around etc. If I put myself in the girl’s age and situation, I will be feeling on top of my world eh?! I will do anything for my bf, including staying and sleeping with him while my parents pay for my education.
The bat-gua part is that this guy’s ex is studying overseas. She’s kind of cute and pretty too. They broke up a few months back. How did I know? He used to link the ex with special name. Something like “my dear….”. If you start putting a lot of things on your blog, don’t expect people to not know.
Recently this guy blogged about his overseas holiday with the current gf. He brought the girl to stay in some nice boutique hotel, took her shopping, dining and sight-seeing. I don’t remember him being so generous with the ex you see?
Out of the sudden, the ex announced she is closing down her blog. She does not want to share anything about herself with anyone, anymore. The guy also removed her link from his blog.
Kind of reminded me of a book I’m currently reading – “Why Am I Always the One Before ‘the One’?” Some girls trained the bf well only to have him taken by someone else.
The moral of the story is do not make your private life too public. You might hurt someone and people will think that you’re a xxxhole who plays around with young girls and chuck them.
I hope the princess and his bf team learn something here. MUAHAHA… this is another story lah.
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